Are you the one who used piggy banks in your childhood to store all the money gifted to you by your relatives? Do you also remember getting happy at unexpected big amount of money you managed to save?
For most of us, the simple piggy bank was our first exposure to the concept of savings. Today, probably in the digital age, the piggy bank is seemingly lost somewhere. The world has changed and children today have much more exposure to finances and money. Teens today are one of the most sought after consumers for a large market, not just toys but things like clothes, entertainment, education, consumables, gadgets, games and so on. In such a world, our intent of exposing them to the basic personal finance principles and building good habits towards finance is a big challenge.
Its time for us too to upgrade our approach. During the adolescent and character building years of children, it becomes very important that we also build good money management habits and understanding amongst our children. The broad objectives for us as parents can be to:
- Give understanding on the importance of money
- Make them comfortable and confidently in handling money
- Make them capable of managing money safely
- Make them financially responsible
- Develop enthusiasm for them to learn more and start saving for future
As parents who also happen to be investors, we surely can do a lot on this front with out children, especially when the usual academic education does no justice to this very critical aspect of life. Here are a few ideas on how we can pursue our objectives on money matters with our growing children…
Pocket money:
In many ways, the pocket money to children is not different than the salary you earn. This simple understanding opens up to a lot of things which can be done with the pocket money. Pocket money is often the first taste of financial responsibility for many people. Giving your child a set amount of money on a regular basis, as well as the responsibility of paying for something they want, allows them to good money management habit. With pocket money, we can imbibe the principles of budgeting, savings, planning for big expenses, being disciplined & responsible, and so on. So the next time you think of giving pocket money, also think of so much more you can give along with just the money.
Budgets & Pocket money:
Understanding the value of money is crucial during the growing years. With most parents affluent today, they tend to pamper their child and fulfil most of their demands. Doing so, the child may not value money and the effort you have done to earn the same. We can always seek participation of children while planning for household expenses /monthly budgets for the family. You can also encourage them to do some household activities or tasks to earn some extra money besides the pocket money. How about asking them to properly wash your car say once a week and show how much the regular car washer is earning? With digital skills, you can also reward them for completing courses or doing some digital activities on your behalf. Making them understand the value of money will surely impact a lot of other money related behaviour.
Spending Money:
There is no limit to how much children can spend today. From entertainment to dining out, to travel, to electronics, and so on. Monitoring their spending and asking them to limit their expenditure to a set budget is crucial here. As parents, we should also learn to say ‘No’ to a lot of unreasonable demands which children place on us. We can also help our children to learn from our own habits and money behaviour while planning our own /household expenses. So the next time you decide to a buy an phone, why not just have a random talk with your child and ask for inputs? If we show discipline in spending ourselves, the children will surely learn a lot more than preaching them something.
Working with Money:
Handling and dealing with money is another great skill to have. You can ask your children to go and open bank account for themselves. Transfer a bit of money to the bank account and let them manage /handle their money digitally. You may also give them pre-loaded money cards instead of hard cash. Ask them to track their expenses online with budget apps. Having a bank account and letting your children manage it on their own is a real time skill required to be learnt soon.
Investing Money:
Seeing money grow gives a very different level of learning to children. Experience is the best teacher and we should expose our growing children to some real investment /wealth management experience. Share with them how and where you are investing and let them listen to your discussions with financial advisor /MF distributor. It would be the best if we can actually open an online mutual fund investment account for your children along with a bank account and ask them to invest regularly with SIPs. Let them make some saving and investment decisions themselves and let them learn. Ask them to present and discuss with you on their investment choices and performance from time to time. Real-time experience on savings can really make a huge difference to their attitude towards money.
Being careful about money
Last but not the least, with the benefits of digital world, there is a dark side where all types of online frauds and scams are prevalent. A lot of children get addicted to games and there have been cases of spending absurd amounts on such online games. Further, with constant online exposure, children also need to be learn on how to be safe online not just with money but also with privacy and a lot of other things which are very risky. Teach them of all different types and ways of fraud, cheating, scams happening online. Digital security is something that needs to be put on the top of your list as parents of growing children.
Conclusion:
As parents, we wish the best for our children and wish them to build skills, knowledge and behaviour that are essential to be successful in life. We do not wish our children to be attracted to money or materialistic life but a the same time, we should teach them how to smartly use money as a limited resource so that it does not become a problem in life. Learning the virtues of contentment, happiness, sharing, caring, self-reliance, discipline and delayed gratification are the true lessons we should teach our children beyond just money management skills. We are sure, with little efforts and planning, your children will surely be thankful to you for life for what you teach them during these growing years.
